Maybe if I was sexier or better in bed, he would be able to stay hard. Every time he couldn’t stay hard, I felt like it was all my fault. He’s ignored many of my subtle and in your face attempts to initiate sex. He’s had issues with staying hard during sex, orgasming, and lower than normal libido. But the truth is, I stopped trying to initiate because I was so upset by all the rejections. I refused to talk about it at that time because I felt the other issue was more important and I felt like he was using this as a distraction to get out of the other argument. He asked me last week why I hadn’t initiated in a long time, did he say or do something to make me stop? He happened to ask this in the middle of us arguing about something else. He’s incredibly affectionate so I know I’m lucky that he at least is always hugging me and touching me. We are currently having sex about once a month. Things have been kind of up and down lately. the answers to our most frequently asked asked questions. Exceptions to this rule: any OP is permitted to cross post their own content, cross posting when OP has included permission for cross-posting in the post. If you can’t respect the flair on a post, it is not the post for you to comment on.Ĭross-posting r/deadbedrooms posts elsewhere will result in a no-warning, permanent ban. Some people come here for support and don’t want advice. Users with little to no history here showing up to lecture us, especially about morality, may be given a no-warning, permanent ban.īe polite. Egregious or repeat violations may result in a no-warning, permanent ban. This includes red pill and generally, yourbrainonporn, biotruthers, religions, divorce/adultery is always wrong, etc. Soap boxing on religion, politics, culture, media, or any other ideological baloney is off topic here. Advocating non-consensual sexual activity is not okay.Īdvocating non-consensual sexual activity is not okay: This includes unwanted groping, drugging someone, open and unwelcome masturbation, initiating on a sleeping partner (without prior consent), duty sex (unwanted coerced sex), reproductive coercion, or suggesting that LLs should "just do it." Violating this rule may result in a no-warning, permanent ban. "Lip-smacking" is also not tolerated, it is not appropriate.ĥ. Lesser violations such as soliciting DMs are subject to removal. Hitting on people, sending unwelcome DMs, R4R posts, directing traffic to onlyfans, all can result in a no-warning, permanent ban. Sexist, racist, and generally offensive content will be removed. Comments should be supportive and constructive. Don't assume someone deserves their dead bedroom.ĭon't respond to someone opening up about their DB with judgement or blame. Contributions must be compassionate, considerate, and humane.īe mindful of how your words will feel to the human who is receiving them. I don’t need you all to write notes of sympathies and condolences to those who were dear to me in my life, I would rather you talk to them personally with me and talk about the good and bad old times, while I can laugh and cry with you.A support group for Redditors who are coping with a relationship that is seriously lacking in sexual intimacy.ġ. I don’t need you all to attend my wake and funeral to see all the common friends you have not seen for a long time, I would rather meet each of you individually or collectively or have a reunion now to reminisce the time we spent together, good and bad. I don’t need all you to be there at my wake and funeral to show your love I would rather be called names now to my face, so you know I can still hear you somehow. I don’t need lots of flowers at my wake and funeral to show how much you cared for me I would rather be given foul smelling Lilies now, while I can still smell them. I don’t need eulogies at my wake and funeral, to tell people the good things I have done I would rather be told now, what I can do better while I can. I dread to see them all come en masse to my wake and eulogize to all, the good in me and the good I have done.No one seem to care no matter what I have done for anyone in the past, good or even bad.No loved one is caring for me I even have to pay someone to do so.No one calls, text, email, or send you a letter or postcard at all to even say hello:.No one seem to care whatever happens to you now.I cry myself to sleep each night because:
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